I am in a similar situation as many of you. This site has really helped me not feel so desperate and alone. My husband told me on 6/1/12 that he feels trapped and doesnt want to be married.he said "i love you but i'm not IN love with you." he says he doesnt want to work on our marriage. he is still at home, we still sleep in the same bed. he still kisses me goodbye and says i love you. i thought things were getting better and that he was coming around but he said last night he is still planning to leave and he is just trying to act normal for our 3 sons. he says he is not conflicted, and this is what he wants. i feel like if i act okay with all of this, he will be put at ease and it will make it easier for him to leave. i have to fight myself all day long not to call him or text or IM him and beg him to stay with us. i feel so powerless. and so hurt and devastated as i am the one who has always given so much to our marriage and family.
