NRTS (Not Repairable at This Station) 2

[BeingMe]

Hi Wendy! If you love a place, don't let someone else kick you out. They should be ashamed enough to move away. But, of course, they aren't ... ashamed that is. As you say, you have your children and grandchildren. Land in Hawaii will always be good to have, and if things don't work out, you can rent it out (or sell), and live somewhere else.

Yes, you will have the freedom to make you happy, and not have the burden of trying to make your STBXH happy. I bet you've been beating that horse for years. I know I have. Can't be done. They have to realize the value of their wives and family all by themselves, that happiness lies within themselves, and the comfort of their family ... or not. I'm beginning to think that my H should be let free to find his own way, which will allow myself the freedom to explore new paths. But, he's not letting go. Sorry for the hijack.

I love the idea of all those fruit trees. Your life will be beautiful. How can it not be if you wish it so? It's all about attitude, gratitude, and love, wherever you may find it.

Take care.