thanks, bug. you're right. it doesn't sound that bad! i couldn't live like this forever but it does give me time to work on myself and it gives him time to "figure things out"...

i'll just hope for more positive interactions. we will be buying cars together soon and that's always fun. he's a very good negiotator (with car salesmen, not wives!).

yesterday's contact gives me more patience. he may still not want to be married but i find myself thinking of the new possibilities for my life if he doesn't.

and that feels good!

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing