You really need to open a can of STFU when she comes around.
You know what you shouldn't have said
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I told her that what ever she needed me to sign was fine. I slipped and said that at this point I will willing to sign the seperation or divorce papers. What ever she wanted to move forward with. I said that it did not feel like to wanted to try and work on anything so either way I would do what she wanted.
A better thing to say might be...NOTHING. You don't have to make things better or easier for her. If she needs to do those things let her do them. Of course you won't sign anything without consulting a L, right?
Read Codependent No More book as soon as you get it.
Quell your need to fill the empty spaces in a conversation.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss