The purpose in asking him if he was here was to let him know that if he was sneaking around my house he was seen. He has no business over here unless he's here to get the girls. If he was here when no one was home, what was his purpose in coming over without alerting me?
I haven't heard the story of the tell tale heart in a long time.One thing I did figure out last night. I was in a silent marriage for years. I am not used to having a man spew, then act like everything is fine, quickly try to explain himself and then act like it never happened. So when XH starts to explain himself, Im not used to it, and I do feel he's trying to cover something up.