Hi ss, I think if you're OK with your arrangement, it's great. It has some definite advantages. Physical intimacy, companionship, no bad family interactions, no extra laundry, you can eat when you want and what you want, he mows the lawn...I'm sure there's more.

Only you know if that works for you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss