Penny, The edit capability was disabled quite a while ago. I do not know when, if ever, it will be restored. As for PMing folks, that capability has never worked on this forum.
The links that Cadet sent you are for you to review at your leisure, His intention was to offer them to you, but not to say that you had to read them all right now. We all understand that with a little one due soon that you will not have time to breathe for a bit.
I hope that everything goes smoothly for you and your precious little.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
