I will say, if you think it's worth it, then I would try to hang tough. Especially when you have children.
I do think it's worth it. He has made substantial changes in his behavior. I love the person this experience has made him. THIS is the person I would want to be with (minus OW). He appreciates me and values my input. He no longer feels like I'm attacking his family but understands how they suck him into their problems. He spends quality time with S4 and D1. He's become a better person in general. BUT the presence of OW is getting on my last f-- nerve. KWIM?
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
