I'm at the same point as well. My W has suckered me in with numerous different apologies and then pulls back days later as she continues her EAs with various other guys. I'm at a breaking point as well and done being the nice guy that puts up with it. My W has tried to blame problems on family, church, and many other things but never once admitting to EA or never once owning up to their own problems. I have been trying to stick to it due to my S but I have truly wore thin to the breaking point.
I constantly get asked how I keep going and putting up with it and at this point I wonder myself.
Me:29 W:28 S:2 M: 5 years Bomb: 7-26-11 Separated: 8-20-11 EA w/ multiple OMs W filed 1/2012