3 months ago I was rejected when I wanted to work on the M, and now I'm being rejected in friendship, and all those rejections are making me angry because I can't control them, and they aren't happening on my timeline. I feel shut out on all levels. And yet I'm still getting drips and drops of the side of him that made me fall in love with him.
ok, you certainly PARTLY understand...
Thing is... if he meant it... he WOULD BE those things you list as a friend.
What ever his reasons for not being those things... they are just reasons... would you let any other "friend" treat you the way he does?
Originally Posted By: Brit45
Sorry Kaffe you can cut to the point with very good questions and I have to waffle about to sort myself out...
lol... well, I've messed up a few diamonds 'cause my chisel didn't always cut to the point, and not always still...
Originally Posted By: Brit45
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Why would you otherwise want to be friends with someone who is not being friends with you...?
because I want him in my life. But maybe just like he needed some time to come around to spending time with SS, he just needs time to see what a friendship with me can look like while he's in a R.
ok, I'll give you that. Still, in the mean time, you may want to let him know that this friendship isn't quite as what you might define it.
Not really sure how to say that to him, atm... but you could always ask him what makes a friendship... and then compare notes with him...
*shrug*
Go over that bit that I reposted from Accuray in the WoW thread. I think you might be able to translate that to how you and your H can be friends...
