So here we go again....more spew...gee its been almost a month I should feel good.
Yesterday I was told by my neighbor that a truck that looked like XH was in my driveway when we were out of town last week. the description of the people sounded like XH and Ow.
So I asked XH if he was here. He flew off the handle in defensiveness, explanations and alibi's. I asked him why he was so super defensive because all I did was ask. Then he proceeds to tell me that if I were getting accused of certain things Id act the same way and the only reason he was explaining anything was because I never believe him anyway.
My response was that I was just asking him where he was, all I needed was an answer. I told him that trusting him is hard and I have my reasons. I said feeling accused is not fun and I can see how he may feel that way, but all I was doing was asking.
So my question....it's normal for an MLCer to fly off the handle at the smallest question? He's become super defensive everytime I've asked him to do a little explaining, I mean he goes off the wall.
So to me if someone flies off the handle in being defensive when asked to tell the truth about something, isn't that a way to de-rail the person asking so they feel so awful they asked in the first place?
