Going around in circles

[angel61]

By the way, to all my friends, I've got some news.....

First of all: So OW did accept the job offer from H's company to keep working with them. She accepted late April, and I learned this through the grapevine, not through H.

Early May, I learned that OW is in a relationship, and that it seemed serious. She went on a vacation with the guy. Then I heard that she was engaged. I think I posted this already.

Apparently, H never knew this. He went to OW's country in Mid-may and learned about it. He did not tell me anything but came back looking depressed. It affected me too... but I just tried my best to let it go, althugh I did act out for a bit.

We then left for our vacation. H was really nice to me, paying attention to me, asking me to walk with him, texting me long messages about what he was doing during the part of our vacation where he was hunting with his buddies and I elected to stay in the city. I enjoyed it immensely. We had a few arguments but they were quickly resolved.

I further learned that apparently, OW is not doing good at her job (always absent, unreliable) and that H is now thinking of letting her go as he is increasingly getting irritated with her lack of a good work ethic (always knew she was unreliable, even other people said so, including her mentor during her post-doc days. At that time, H defended her so much, and even used to say that she is a workaholic!)

Oh well, I hope that he is finally letting go of those rose colored glasses.