PH, Most of the time, the advice and threads are a good place to start, but I disagree a bit w/Cadet on the lengthy assignment <g>.
In this instance, with a new baby on the way, leave the H on his merry way and take care of yourself and the baby and do not worry about what his merry way is.
Worry about all the rest of this, if you do, after you come up for air.
I am sending good energy your way.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D