Thanks AJ and Jack. I'm kind of at a loss for words right now.

About an hour ago, X called our sons and told them:

SHE IS GETTING MARRIED.

It will happen next Summer.

I thought I was doing so well.

It was like a knife went through me. I had a good cry and went into the bathroom and puked.

What now?


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13