Thanks AJ and Jack. I'm kind of at a loss for words right now.
About an hour ago, X called our sons and told them:
SHE IS GETTING MARRIED.
It will happen next Summer.
I thought I was doing so well.
It was like a knife went through me. I had a good cry and went into the bathroom and puked.
What now?
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13