Check out the stats on mothers who file/leave the marriage, absent abuse. It's worse for those who leave their kids too...and your wife has lost time w/him.
Where are those stats, out of curiosity? Granted, my wife isn't a mother, but it would still be interesting to see...
Kolja, I'll get them but it's time consuming as it has been a few years. But all the cases I looked at were moms who left.
One group left the marriage WITH the kids versus the ones who left the kids behind.
THe second group did much worse.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016