They're Cohabitating, I'm Capitulating

[bustingout]

Hi Brit ((( )))

You really are amazing. When I read your first post under this thread I worried.

But now getting to the end of it I see once again how strong you are and what wonderful insight and understanding you have of your sitch, your H and your own wants and needs.


You show grace and maturity and a deep understanding of needing to b e patient, fair and forgiving.

My H is also in a R with someone else. He lied so much and hurt me so deeply that I think I get you when you say you love him as a person right now ( after doing an already tremendous amount of self reflection and healing) but not as
someone you are in love with at the moment.

Continue working on yourself. And think of your talk with Cheryl as something you are doing for yourself - to give you more support in becoming the best Brit you can be. You can go to the BBQ afterwards. You might feel better after the talk anyway and have an even better time than you thought you could.

Thinking of you...