ne of our last conversations after I helped her financially when things were tight was her statement "wait until we aren't dating in a month then you'll throw that up in my face". So I'm making a point not to do that.
I was about to say before I read this that whatever you do stay consistent. Don't say keep the car, make a payment, then a month or so later change. Don't contribute towards the kids which you said over and over was for them and then pull that out because of what you think she might derive from that. Just stay consistent.
In the past money has featured quite heavily so maybe just not talking about money AT ALL is a 180 for you.
