Originally Posted By: scaredsilly
since the last email i sent to H was pretty much letting him know that i won't pursue anymore with initiating contact, i have a question:

he's coming here after work today to cut the lawn. normally, i would stay and talk and offer him some help and a beer and we might ML (usually).

now, if i stay, it would feel as if my email was a fraud and i'm still in pursuit.




Just my twisted and warped thinking....

Wasn't sending the email, kind of a fraud ?

I mean, sending an email, to say that you aren't going to email anymore.....hmmmm


It seems as though you sent it, hoping for reaction from him. Like you were looking for a the shock value in your words.

Time, time, and more time, with consistent actions....not words




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do i need to respond? should i just say, "ok. thank you for letting me know and say i'll tell my son (S40) happy birthday for him?




^^^^ see above


What do YOU think you should do ?