Leave a note, "there's a cold one in the fridge" and go GAL. Or send an email "Thanks for letting me know. I have other plans, there's a beer in the fridge."
Is the relationship you have now the one you want?
Do you feel good about it?
It seems to me you're clouding decisions for you on how he will react.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
