FF, in terms of the post above, when you tell your W you miss her, you are making her resent you more, that's why she doesn't respond. When you say you miss her, you're saying "I'm sad because of what you've done". She doesn't want to be responsible for your sadness, and she will resent you for putting her in that position.

The best thing you can do is appear happy in spite of her. Make her want to share your happiness with you, because it's intoxicating and infectious. That's a much better strategy than asking her to ease your loneliness, what's in it for her?

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015