"Michelle through her research and work is going to have put together processes that have the highest chance of working in various scenarios."
Impossible. Every situation is different and there is no way they all be accounted for.
"And also understand some methods which are "illogical" but work regarding these type of situations."
That's what DB is all about. DB isn't logical and goes against instinct. You really haven't been reading.
"The things I pointed out which got some negative flak, are things that "you aren't supposed to do", or "are not nice" - but they do have some affect, and"
No you got negative flak because you kept stating them as fact and comes across as rude.
"even if only to make you feel better about what's going on."
If you want to get your spouse back, you don't always do what makes you feel better. In fact, that's what got the LBS in hot water sometimes. Go back and read the book.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
