My W being a psychologist thought she could win over my crazy EW and provide for a positive parenting relationship. My W's efforts failed and once she realized how out truly mental and abusive EW is my W encouraged me to go after full custody of my two D's. I did and the custody battle has been going on for almost a year now. It has emotionally daring my W and me and has come between us. Progress is being made and we have our final hearing on August 16th. We have 135 pages CPS report that substantiated physical and emotional abuse on her part against my kids but even with that I am still concerned at what the court will actually do. My W told me that she cannot go back to a life that includes my EW. So I guess that if I do not get full custody in August there is no hope for my marriage. So sad that it has to be like this. I still feel like if I could somehow become a better spouse that it would make up for this baggage that I bring into the marriage called an ex-wife. Has anyone had to deal with this before? Am I just supposed to wait until August and hope the courts see what is going on?
M-45 W-44 2D - 11&13 2SS - 11&17 Married 10/10/10 Bomb 3/5/12 Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12 Back together 9/12 Seperated 6/13 Divorce Final 11/13/13