NLW, I am so glad that the website was helpful. I can relate so well to how you feel. I was completely blindsided by my H. One day we were a normal family and literally the next he was gone. What I didn't know is that he likely had been having conversations in is head about all that was wrong and was detaching. Having answers provides clarity and provides some peace, but at the same time I know that my boys are suffering because my H doesn't know what's happening to him. I have answers that he needs, but can't share. After backsliding a number of times I really do know that I can't help him and to try and do so will only prolong his crisis. So the information is for me, my boys and for anyone else who finds it helpful. It helps me to keep my heart open so that I don't become angry and bitter. Believe me, I've had my moments, but they fade with reflection and prayer.
