In the word of True Gritter: Ef Him!

This is your life now, he's opted out. Do what helps make you the best SS you can be. Sounds like it's the perfect GAL.

If he files, he files. You have no control of that no matter where you are, people do what they do.

I wouldn't send him the note. Pursuit.

Be the new Scared Smart!

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss