GM, Just wanted to let you know how helpful I found the website you posted, too.
Thanks you so much for this. It's helped me as much as anything I've read so far.
After nearly 10 months, I still have the feeling that this can't be happening to me. But reading those posts about depression really opened my eyes about what my H - and I - are going through. And it gave me a sense of 'why', which allows some closure for me.
So, thanks to you, I am out of the terrible funk that I've been in for the last couple of days.