25yearsmlc posted,

What's up with that? It's so important that she see you as THE BEST DAD possible now. More than ever. It's a turn on, emotionally and it's crucial that your son knows how affirming you feel about him. (So it's not just about HER...on the contrary it's for your son and YOU first...then her, we can hope).


Couple of things going on here now. I've noticed that the W & OM for the recent last week have stopped physicaly seeing each other. I'm not sure what's going on but I'm still persuing getting a new job, my own bank account and my own place to move(still in the area).
But a couple of things I need to work out is how to support the S7 & S12 as for now will stay in the current house with the W. But I will not support her at all( not enough money ).
Should I stop W medical insurance? And how much is needed to support the two boys?
Next question I have is, when finding a town home to rent. What kind of lease agreement should I look for since this is a non-legal seperation?


M44 / W43
Married 24 / Together 24.5
S12
S7
ILYBNILWY/Bomb: 4-15-2012
Counseling started 5-1-2012
Counseling ended 6-7-2012