Welcome to the board merlot. At the toP of this thread there are 37 rules for u to read. Start and get the DR book . If u can afford it buy some time with a coach they are very helpful. Right now do nothing. You can seek counsel from a L. No harm in getting info. It's time to take care of yourself and give control to God/ universe which ever you prefer. Read others thread and post often.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”