My Marriage

[MrD]

ps

did You tell your son he was "terrible @ baseball"? Just curious. It's a weird thing for your w to say and since she said it quietly it makes even less sense for her to make it up (as no public shaming was intended) But still possible...

Later yesterday evening I did ask S7 if I ever told him I said "have I ever said like you were a teribble football player?" and he said calmly, no

I think W said it quietly because S7 might have been in the kitchen eating breakfast at the time.


What's up with that? It's so important that she see you as THE BEST DAD possible now. More than ever. It's a turn on, emotionally and it's crucial that your son knows how affirming you feel about him. (So it's not just about HER...on the contrary it's for your son and YOU first...then her, we can hope).
Yes I agree, But at first when I was persuing W after the bomb, all focus was on her.


BTW I don't think women are unmoved by loving interactions between their children and their fathers, at all...

But I fear he might even take some of the blame for the problems.

Be clear with him about how important he is to you, now more than ever.

((( )))

Thanks for the hugs!