Well.. it's been a long time since I have been on here but I need to vent some frustration.
Some background: The D was final 3 years ago and A started 6 years ago. My XH has been living with ow on and off for about 4 years I think and is engaged to her. After all of the pain, I have moved on nicely with my life. We actually get along well despite the past so the kid stuff is pretty painless (for me, not the kids). I still can't/won't be civil to ow so it is clear that she is NOT to be around me
The weirdness started happening about a year ago with xh starting to drop statements about missing being married to me, hanging around a bit, and talking about moving out of ow's house. After the move finally happened, the reconciliation hints started up. I was pretty clear that IF that were ever to happen, xh needed to have no contact with ow. My gut was telling me that this was not happening although he was implying that he was "spending time alone". Ha! I guess I define alone differently.
I just really don't get it. Why the heck even bring this subject up if he is technically still with ow? There is no cake-eating for him over here any longer. I just find it all a bit unnerving. I wanted to believe him but wouldn't let myself and yet.. a small part of me did believe him. Unfortunately, it was still all a bunch of bs - all talk/no action. Why do I still feel a little disappointed though?
