you're doing great scared silly - even though you don't realize it - you're much further along than you trust yourself to be.

i know - because i can look back and see where i was at the 6 mo point and it was nowhere near where you are now. i just started melody beauties workbook that goes with codependent no more and its helping me see how i have the same behaviors you describe.

brit - that's great if you get the coaching - i want so much to do it, but feel apprehensive about spending the money.

i thought about it a lot before when i first found this site and the books, then felt like i couldn't spend it (even called them) and now lately i feel the urge again to take the plunge.

as ss said - please tell us what she recommends = i have often though that it would be great if people who had coaches would post more about what the coaches said.

maybe this will propel me to do the same.

zig


me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"