did You tell your son he was "terrible @ baseball"? Just curious. It's a weird thing for your w to say and since she said it quietly it makes even less sense for her to make it up (as no public shaming was intended) But still possible...
What's up with that? It's so important that she see you as THE BEST DAD possible now. More than ever. It's a turn on, emotionally and it's crucial that your son knows how affirming you feel about him. (So it's not just about HER...on the contrary it's for your son and YOU first...then her, we can hope).
BTW I don't think women are unmoved by loving interactions between their children and their fathers, at all...
But I fear he might even take some of the blame for the problems.
Be clear with him about how important he is to you, now more than ever.
((( )))
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