Had a great talk with Laurie on Friday and I have been referring back to the notes I took from that conversation many times in the last 3 days. We actually had a very pleasant weekend, so the idea of divorce seems so very odd and foreign to me. Just a really strange choice. But I am staying very calm and patient and not pressuring anything. On Friday morning he asked if we could talk about our relationship. I'm not sure what he has to say will be good or bad and it does me no good to try to guess, but rather try to be prepared for one way or the other. He said this before he knew I had a call to make. He doesn't know I was talking to a DB coach, but when I said I would be gone for an hour because I had to make a phone call, I described it as a "personal development" phone call (my 11 year old son was sitting there). He has always been supportive of me talking to a therapist, so I'm hoping he recognizes that I am still doing something for myself.
M:39 H:39 S/15, S/11 (both adopted in 2004, my step-nephews, now our kids) M10, T13 Multiple bombs. Latest one 5/4/12, our 10th anniversary. Still living together and sharing a bed up until 7/18/12.
