10. Do not spy on spouse by checking emails, phone bills, etc. (Not good for you and will make matters worse.)
I am COMPLETELY with sandi2 on this one....if you have ANY interest in saving your marriage.
Sometimes folks who think their spouse is in an affair think this helps them.
It doesn't.
It's the wrong focus either way. Unless you have your heart set on divorce, and that's not what this site is for.
It sets drama in motion.
Leads someone to set ultimatum, some folks set lot of other drama including exposure in motion. Once those things are set in motion, they cannot be retrieved.
There are a LOT of other attractive options that can be worked out in between. With or without a DB coach.
Sandi2 and others know how to give you ideas.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
