Thank you!

I have set boundaries by actions i.e. not doing his lunch box or washing etc.

He came back yesterday to see DD in a show. He was working yesterday and today. He is bathing the kids now, which I asked him to do. He did the washing up! But I think that's because I am starting to get back spasms.

I know about the patience! Lol! I have had years of practice with his parents.

25mlc, I will get to replying to you. Probably will be tomorrow, but lots to cover!

Sorry for the delay, I keep losing my thread and not realising I'd got an replies!

Thank you to all who have replied.