He married outgoing me, then claims to hate that part of me.
You know, we marry people who have certain qualities we like; but it is like a coin, and you have to accept the other side of the coin. I was an introvert married to an extrovert. The plus side was that he took care of our social life, brought lots of interesting adventures into our life, reminded me of my dad. The minus was that he couldn't relax, he thought less of me because of my desire for quiet relaxation. There's always good and bad.
Right now, though - he's just searching for something, anything, that he can blame on you to justify his behavior. However ridiculous.
