thanks, brit. i hope something takes hold of me and gets me out of this obsession. it's hard, too, because we still have to communicate about things and it keeps me tied to him.
i have an appointment with a L this friday. i want to find out about how our pensions and retirement funds would be split. i had a lot more than he did when we got married.
we have a pre-nup so there would be no alimony and i will have to live on social security and my retirement accounts. we would have to sell a lot of jointly-owned property and posessions, should we divorce.
i'm only going to ask questions at the appointment but sometimes, i think i'll only get over him and move forward by getting a D.
i know others have been DB'ing much longer than i have (when i have) and are dealing with infidelity. i just don't know how they stay in this limbo so long.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
