If the vows we took before God, promising to stay together till death didn't mean anything, then why did we come here looking for a way to try and save our marriages?
Granted, a lot of us saved ourselves, but I, for one, didn't come to this forum with that as my first desire. In fact I'm pretty sure the site was set up with the intention of saving Ms.
I agree with Cadet about staying married. It's a choice made everyday. Growth can take place together or apart. It only takes one to make the choice of wanting out to break apart what it took years to build.
I have come to despise the term 'soul mate' it makes me want to puke.
