Wendy, the more I read your posts the more I see a lovely, interesting, caring, compassionate woman with a beautiful spirit. Although we've never met I can see you clearly, but your H, amazingly, doesn't see you at all. I'm so sorry about that. I wish I could wake him up. It's beyond me that he continues to be so caught up in OW drama when the key to a joyful life is right before him.