You did not come across as harsh and I am grateful for comments. I look forward to getting comments from this forum almost as much as I do from my W. Thanks for the input. She has been my source of happiness. It is starting to get easier to put thoughts of her aside and get out and gal. In the last month I have stopped making any comments about the status of the M, I have stopped sending small gifts, notes or texts. I try and have it so if there is any communication between us she is the one that has to initiate it. I guess I am maybe still a little too available and eager to please. Kind of hard to know where to draw the line and it makes it even more difficult having her and my kids running back and forth between homes. I do feel like when we do get together, maybe 2 or 3 times a week things are good. We laugh and chat and just kind of enjoy ourselves. I think one of the biggest things I can do for myself is get myself back in shape so that I look good and have more confidence. She said something yesterday about my looking thinner so good to hear:-) again thanks for the feedback.
M-45 W-44 2D - 11&13 2SS - 11&17 Married 10/10/10 Bomb 3/5/12 Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12 Back together 9/12 Seperated 6/13 Divorce Final 11/13/13
