from the WAS to being walked away on

[strongerthanever]

Kim,

I am shocked to see that my hot mess of a m has bee in insightful, but glad that it is. I am intrigued to see that he was the was, ended in d and now his heart is changing. I always hear about hearts changing just before or after the reality of the d. I can totally see how DB survival skills could not only save your sanity, but also turn the lbs into the was.

I think they finally find themselves and keep on walking down their new path. I think it is so vital to keep that tiny door cracked, even though their hurtful actions keep slamming it shut. I am by far no expert on this as I am aware of my ability to do the same.

I would say though, don't slam it shut. Don't be mean or nasty. Consider the old m dead, and see the new r with fresh eyes. It could be a great friendship or possibly nothing. But, what if, (this is a big one, I know) it took him this long to grow into the man you were meant to be with. You can turn your back on the old h, but what about the new and improved one??