The idea of a soulmate gives some folks an excuse to not make the effort required to keep a marriage going and makes others lazy from the beginning.
As an aside, my mother-in-law said to me "I don't know, maybe he found his soulmate" in OW, just after she cut a cheque for 25k so that he could pay off his vehicle and walk away from our marriage.
No offense to anybody, but I think the idea of soulmates is bogus. Marriage takes commitment, effort and acceptance/embracing of the differences that make the world a fascinating and beautiful place.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011
