New to separation. Am I doing the right things?

[Jessica M.]

I am new to separation as well, although it's going straight towards divorce. It is very confusing on how to act with the WAS especially when kids are involved. I don't know how nice to be to my H. I want to reconcile with him and even if that doesn't happen, I want to have a good working relationship with him for our daughter's sake but how do you do that? Especially when you are in so much pain. And you don't want to sabatoge anything that could help you get back together.