Posting this here so that I can find when I need it. It's helping me let go of some of my anger.
Was having a talk with a friend of mine and I was going on about how angry I was at W because she was living the life of a single with OM, going out every night,having fun and with no concerns. My friend said "don't believe it, she is feeling shame and sadness but every time she does the OM just whispers in her ear everything she wants to hear to make her feel better and that she is doing the right thing. This is only delaying the hurt that she will go thorough once the A is over and by then you will be way into your path of recovery."
Make me a little sad thinking that W is letting OM use her this way.
M-41 W-41 D-7 M- 10yrs I still love you, but 4-25-12 Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12 Confirmed PA 6-9-12
