One of the issues my W says I have is being distant and not wanting to do things with the family, that being the case, is going dark really a good option for me? For example, got a couple of 2x4 when I mentioned that I was king to ask W to go shopping with me for D's birthday gift. I do understand that going dark is to have them miss you and to have them think about what we are doing, but for a person with my past does this not send the signal of more of the same?
Sorry if I seem to be all over the place.
M-41 W-41 D-7 M- 10yrs I still love you, but 4-25-12 Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12 Confirmed PA 6-9-12
