.....she has never expressed any desire to leave the state before.....that kinda freaked me out a bit. THAT is why is said it seems like she is just giving up completely.
leaving the state seems easier, I guess, than trying to fix the m and trusting that your changes are real or that her feelings can come back.
But every positive loving interaction you have with her, waters that garden a bit.
Like daily deposits of only $1, it accumulates over time. Pretty soon the interest is compounding, and the pay off is big...
Try to see your interactions with her that way.
I think she's realizing her options are fewer and is theorizing about what is available and what's not. Let's hope when she gets to the
*Reconcile with Crimson* Option, it looks appealing and like a fairly smooth transition b/c hey, after all,
you are the man she always wanted you to be.
Have you ever asked her if she saw much forgiveness growing up? Do you already know the answer is "no"?
Have you ever asked her to try and let the past go EVEN IF YOU DO NOT RECONCILE
b/c you think it's holding HER back and b/c you'd feel a lot lighter knowing she had let go of the past....
and make sure you let go of it. It weighs you down and if you are walking around with the downer/needy look all the time
she won't think you are different enough.
Make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
