legally won't she need your consent to leave the state?

Did she really believe you'd be okay with that?

I think You are allowed to ask her if she ever thinks of how YOU feel in all this. B/c talking about leaving the state sounds a lot like a threat to some people.

No- Not to me in this sitch
b/c I think she's whining about not being able to go, legally,

and just having a bad day and thinking of all people who knows what it's like to have a hard day with s2, it would be YOU.

Lay off the "I understand" and say "I bet" or "sometimes I find it hard too" or something that does not suggest you get her.

She does not believe you "get" her atm. And let's face it; you don't.

All in all I'd say it's more positive than negative. She shared her feelings with you and did not blame her anger on you. Those are positives.

But Don't over react.

They are only the beginning of a 1000 step march; a march from which she can fall out anytime.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change