So just now absolutely more crazy behaviour. Evidently STBXH needed to make a phone call. But instead of coming out of his bedroom and showing any signs he is awake he snuck ouit of the house and climbed the hill behind our house.

I was wondering why he was sleeping in so long, and I was sneeking around being quiet. i was out moving boxes into my sewing eroom and he came down the stairs from the upper yard/MIL quarters and scared the crap out of me.

Then he makes this elaborate pretense of telling me he went on an early morning hike to loosen up his back. Yes, sure in his flip flops and no breakfast? The man NEVER skips breakfast. I blew my lid. Like I haven't done since one of my boys cut the back of a new leather sofa......

I told him how rude it was to sneek out, that if he wanted to go make a phone call, then to just do it, but to just no longer act so darn childish.

I told him he needs to never again talk to me about OW. I told him how low class I feel he is behaving. And I told him to start buying his own bananas, get his own lunch money out of the bank and to make his own dinner.

In a few hours, after I finish packing up my sewing room, I'm headed out and I don't know when I'm coming back. I might take my sleeping bag, my tent and go over to my favorite beach and see if there is a camping spot open. I am sick of him and his crap. Heck, I might sleep on the boat.

I asked both sons to try to plan something with their dad for Fathers Day. Well, they neither one want to spend time with him.
Make me sad.

Anyway, my broken parts need some reflection right now. I need to go out and be alone.


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
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