I've posted here before WAW left in October her and her family asked me to attend my W cousins wedding in Costa Rica in August only thing I needed to cover was my plane ticket and half of my sons. So I agree to go. A month after I paid my W the airfare for my ticket and half of son's she consults with a attorney and has started paperwork for a dissolution. She handed me the necessary paper work I need to complete to get the dissolution process started but i've yet to do any of it yet. I asked her if she still wants me to go to Costa Rica with her and she said yes? I'm not sure if I can handle seeing a beautiful wedding down on the beach with W knowing a month or 2 later we will be divorced. I'm not sure if I should go or not? Her family will really be disappointed if I don't attend but I'm also sure they would understand if they were in my shoes. How would you all handle something like this would you go?