Results of confronting the other guy?

[25yearsmlc]

It's so hard it's nearly impossible! I'm just trying to give an idea how tough it was, to look at and communicate with someone who usedd to be emotionally supportive - who is now somewhere else. She's gone, for now, and maybe for ever.

If I was to backtrack through my situatoin, I would have minimized commmunication and contact while the affair was going on. Hell tell her, if she' sgoing to carry on then go live with the other guy. It's not for you to move out of you guys place because she's cheating.

I personally, also after some amount of time if I could go back would have gotten a girlfriend. Find a girlfriend whose not trying to take from you, that you nejoy spending time with. you can tie your feelings of emotional dependancy, pleasure, etc onto her.

I guess this is YOUR personal belief and advice but it's NOT DB advice and not the place for giving out your random

but consistenly punitive/anger based, "teach spouse a lesson" perspective.

I don't think you get "DBing" at all. I don't think you know DBing.

You clearly don't follow it.


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