Last night I went to a concert with friends and I ran into H's best friend. He was really happy to see me and gave me a big hug. He actually saw my best friend and followed her assuming I would be with her. He told me that he thinks about me often and how him and his wife miss me (wife texted me a few weeks ago asking if I would come visit her soon). It made me feel good.
This morning I woke up to an email from my mother in law saying she misses me and asking me lots of questions about my plans for the summer. She asked that I please write back and keep in touch (I didn't respond to her last email). I think I will write back but be vague about my summer plans- I don't think she would share the email with H but you never know. I talked to my other friend this morning (who knows all parties involved) and she said to her it just shows how much of a wiener (her words-ha!) my H is that all these people that are HIS people are saying how much they miss me.
I am going out for lunch and drinks with my friend from work and his girlfriend and his best friend, who he wants me to meet. I'm going with an open mind. I feel like I am ready to start meeting new people, not dating, but making new friends, etc.
Me-32 H-31 M-1yr, 9mos/T-6.5yrs No kids, 3 pets H estranged father passes away- 8/11 Bomb- 1/15/12 Began LRT- 4/1/12